Hope is the Best Remedy for Brain Injury
For those who are already lost, rehabilitation is the only path. But along that path, one of the most important things needed is hope. Hope that one day you will make it to the end of a difficult journey and have a better life, even if it never be like it was before the accident.
Physical therapy, and the success that it has helped bring about with TBI survivors, is a powerful symbol of that hope.
DJ, a 15-year-old Alger Middle School student, was hit by a car five and a half years ago. He suffered a broken left femur, a severe neck injury, internal bruising and a traumatic brain injury.
Since the accident, he has had to relearn everything: how to sit up, swallow food, feed himself, talk and, now, how to walk.
”Somebody was a little bit more stubborn than what the doctors thought,” said his mom, Lisa Shockey. She recalled how medical staff first predicted DJ would not survive more than 24 hours and, if he did, he would be “a vegetable.”
DJ, asked how he has managed to come so far, had a ready response.
”I never give up,” he said, his words coming slow but sure. “I didn’t give up on life.”
DJ will be one of nine eighth-graders from Alger’s POHI program — for physically and otherwise health-impaired students — taking part in the end-of-school ceremony Thursday (June 2) with the 150 general education students. The crossing-over ceremony marks their transition to Ottawa Hills High School.
”I’m so excited for him,” said Liesha Crawford. who has taught DJ for four years. “He really, really, really has learned more than we ever thought he would.”
Back in March, we wrote a powerful testimony of TBI survivor Kory Christensen. These cases show two different cases of people moving forward on the path of recovery. The ultimate goal is for them to develop the skills to be able to function in and integrate with society. These people are still very young. Giving up is not an option because they still have so much more life to live. One of the most important things that we can do is provide the resources, environment, and support for them to be able to reclaim the life that was stolen for them.
At times, in some of the darkest moments of the struggle, it is easy for people to lose all hope… to give up and say “I can’t do it.”
BUT YOU CAN DO IT! The people who have done it are proof that it is possible. Take Oregonian columnist Elizabeth Hovde…
Being a brain trauma victim is a weird thing. You go from being someone people can tell you about but whom you can’t imagine being (and don’t remember being), to learning almost everything over again — walking, eating, handwriting. The death of your dad.
Three weeks or so after my skiing accident and the following coma, I was coming around and knew something was wrong with my dad. But I didn’t know what. That’s when my mom and sister had to tell me he died a few months ago.
I was fully present for his end days, but the brain hadn’t yet found a path to that information. I sat that night alone in my hospital room and remembered it all, reliving his death and feeling bad about making my family tell me the “news” all over again. There’s a job no one should have…
…I received help from a dozen or so workers at RIO, not to mention the employees at Legacy Emanuel, the first hospital I was at for two-plus weeks. I don’t remember being there, but I appreciate the care just the same. I owe the employees at these Portland places big kudos for all the meaningful work they do.
I’m about four months out from my ski accident and coma now and have been home since mid-February. Every day there is a new discovery and a new challenge. In addition to actual therapy, I find therapy in writing a journal because the writer side of me stayed put. You are who you are, it seems.
Though I am thrilled, and massively relieved, to be home with my husband and two small boys, I still find myself missing the positive people I first “awoke” to. And I am forever grateful for all that they and so many others have done.
Hope is everywhere. You just have to remember to look.
On that related note, American stage actor and artist Gary Busey (himself a survivor of TBI) gives back to his fellow fighters












